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A lot of girls who play exclusively on my team team lez are super snobby about bi girls. And I sort of get it.
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I've fooled around with women before, kissing and heavy petting and such, but nothing I would describe as sex. It doesn't help that the lesbian cis women I personally know are Obviously notalllesbians, but every lesbian woman I've been close with has been very irritated by me identifying as bisexual if I haven't had sex with women. My best friend recently snapped at me that I'm just a fake bisexual for attention if I've never acted on it. Another friend told me that being bisexual was a privilege and I had no right to "whine" about the difficult aspects of it to her.
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The two LGBTQ groups I've been part of were dominated by monosexual people who did not have many nice things to say about bisexual women. So while I'm sure this isn't universal, it's definitely a pattern for me personally and it hurts a lot. So now I'm headed down a dark path where I'm becoming actively scared of approaching lesbian women.
I've tried to find bisexual women through dating apps, but having a profile as a young-ish bisexual woman looking to experiment only seems to attract straight dudes looking for threesomes which I'm actually open to, but these creeps sure do know how to snatch defeat from the jaws of victory! I guess other bisexual women have the same problem I do, because I can't find them for the life of me. And I'm afraid monosexual women will be a little cruel about my inexperience and identity.
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Maybe going out there as a unicorn would help, but I've got the same anxiety about that. Like I said, this has been happening since I was a teen. It's unsettling to be a sexually experienced virgin and I don't know where to go from here. I'd like to pop my lady-cherry! But I don't know how to find someone who won't take my half-virginity as a that I'm faking bi for attention.
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I think I'm coming down with sexual impostor syndrome. A married-to-a-man bisexual woman desperate for some girl-on-girl action—a woman also struggling with a host of other issues— wrote in a while back.
I tried to put both her problem and her odds in perspective Most bisexual women aren't out bi men too and most bisexual women are in opposite-sex relationships bi men too —and there are more bisexuals than there are gays or lesbians. Some studies have found that there are more bisexuals than gays and lesbians combined.
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I suggested to Going Absolutely Insane that might want to seek out other bisexual women like her, since there are way more bi women than lesbian women, and I suggested she look for same-sex bi partners where most same-sexers monosexual and otherwise find their same-sex partners:. But you already did that—you already put yourself out there online—and it didn't help. You were overwhelmed by responses from creepy guys.
What now? Well, instead of trying to work this one out myself, NF, I tossed your question out to Bisexual Twitter. I asked Bisexual Twitter to skip the obvious—some monosexuals are clueless, you need to get better friends—and share some practical tips.
And Bisexual Twitter came through Drastically cuts down on energy wading thru bullshit. You're bi, you know it, you're figuring out what it means. Also, seek out other bi people, esp newly out ones? Surround yourself with bi women positivity. Apps are def hard for all the reasons she mentioned. Being a "unicorn" might be an overwhelming way to start. Wish she could DM me for more info!
Start asking your so called friends if they identified as asexual before they were ever sexually active since experience seems to be the only proof — Morgan byte January 24, Dating sites. It has to be a dating site. Dating sites are how we find each other. OkCupid can be good.
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Most hookup aren't going to inquire too closely about your sexual history. Don't volunteer the information — Trevor Antczak TrevorAntczak January 24, 1 try a dating app focused on lgbt women. Plus it has a forum on sfw topics which might help ease OP into pursing sex with people who aren't cismen.
It can take a lot of time to find the right person who won't judge you or box you into a stereotype. Don't let anyone tell you what you are or aren't! Practically, I would suggest looking into a kink scene if possible.
I've found it far more bi-friendly than nearly every other queer space. On dating apps, don't bring up inexperience immediately, broach it after a few exchanges — What May Come katspawprint January 24, And finally, NF, a great thread—some great personalized advice for you—from the folks at Still Bisexual They can often be more accepting and open-minded.
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